Whenever we begin a process to pursue our dreams, there will always be skeptics, nay-Sayers, and sometimes negative input from family, friends, and colleagues about our new choices and likelihood for success.
These attitudes are understandable. People are generally not comfortable with change. Look at how long it took us to take even small steps to have the life and dreams that we want.
It is best to let your community know up front in an organized, planned out, thoughtful, confident manner with no excuses or apologies about your commitment you made to yourself to change.
Let them know what you are working on – a new adventure, career, or challenge, even a hobby – whatever the dream is – big or small.
Ask them for what you need:
Ask for the encouragement to take small steps in a new direction.
Ask for acceptance of who you will become.
Ask for the time and space to make small changes in your life.
Ask for what you need from your group to become successful.
Ask how you can help others to follow their dreams.
Ask for forgiveness (in advance) if your new path threatens or harms them.
Not everyone will be supportive. So it is important to discount the negativity and doubts and stay true to yourself and follow your dreams.
Over time when your community sees your unwavering commitment and dedication to your goals and dreams you may begin to generate more positive responses, support and feedback.
